Is Maternal Instinct Real—And When Will Your Caregiving Drive Kick In?

Many parents quietly wonder whether they’re missing something — an innate “maternal instinct,” an instant bond, or a sense of automatic knowing they’re supposed to feel when a baby arrives. In this thoughtful article from The Bump, research and real parents’ stories offer a reassuring reframing, showing that connection and confidence often develop gradually through the everyday experience of caregiving.

Dr. Emma Basch contributes a compassionate perspective, emphasizing that what we often think of as instinct is really the brain adapting over time — learning a baby’s cues, rhythms, and needs through closeness and care. Not feeling an immediate bond is common, deeply human, and not a reflection of the kind of parent you are or will become.

If this topic resonates or brings up questions about your own experience, you’re warmly invited to read the full article.

And if you find yourself wanting more support as you navigate early parenthood or the transition into caregiving, Dr. Basch and her team are here — you’re always welcome to reach out to learn more or schedule care when it feels right.