7 Surrogacy Myths, Debunked: Expert Insights With Dr. Emma Basch
In a recent Parents.com feature, mental health expert Dr. Emma Basch joins the conversation on surrogacy — debunking some of the most persistent myths that circulate about this family-building path.
The piece breaks down seven widely held beliefs about surrogacy, offering clarity on topics ranging from parental bonding to psychological impact, legal rights, and emotional well-being. Drawing from clinical insights, lived family stories, and expert voices, this article helps redefine what surrogacy actually looks like for the many people who choose it.
Highlights include:
How gestational surrogates are legally and emotionally distinct from “mothers” — including discussion of biological and legal roles.
Why surrogacy contracts protect all parties involved, and why the myth of a surrogate “keeping the baby” doesn’t reflect reality.
Insights into psychological outcomes for surrogates, showing they often thrive with proper support rather than being harmed by the process.
The importance of open family communication about surrogacy to reduce stigma and identity concerns for children born through this path.
How intended parents form bonds with their children from the moment they’re born — despite myths to the contrary.
Throughout the article, Dr. Basch offers grounded, compassionate commentary to help readers make sense of emotional and psychological aspects of surrogacy that often go unexamined.
👉 Read the full Parents.com article for the complete list of myths and expert truths.